As the leaves turn orange and temperatures drop, “cuffing season” changes the dating landscape for many. This annual phenomenon of single people seeking partners over the winter isn’t just a trend, says Logan Urey, director of relationship science at Hinge and a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist.
“Cuffing season is real,” Yury says.
Why finding a partner attracts attention in autumn
Yury explained that the science behind this seasonal change is rooted in human behavior. During the warmer months, people are often busy and traveling, but as winter approaches, the desire for companionship increases.
But finding love in the digital age requires strategy, and Urey, author of How Not to Die Alone, says the biggest mistake daters make is focusing on quantity over quality. Masu. According to research from Hinge, single people who talk to eight or fewer people at a time are more likely to find a partner.
“It’s hard to say, ‘Who did I say this to?’ ‘Who did I say that to?’ You really have to focus on each person and say, ‘Can I build a relationship with this person?’ ?” I want to say seriously. If so, that’s great. If not, please move on to the next item,” Yury said.
“Your Turn” restriction introduced on Hinge
To ensure daters don’t get overwhelmed, Hinge has introduced a feature called “Your Turn Limits” that encourages users to manage their connections. Once you reach 8 matches, you must respond to or close existing chats before you can swipe through new potential matches.
“Based on this research, the fewer people you talk to, the more likely you are to go on a date or enter into a relationship,” she says.
Hinge’s new “Your Turn Limits” feature encourages singles to focus on meaningful connections by limiting active chats to eight.
first date tips
For first dates, Ury recommends settings that allow people to showcase their strengths and interests. Instead of choosing a classic coffee date, Yury suggests activities that reflect each person’s personality.
Conversation also plays an important role in building connections. Yury advises daters to avoid asking shallow questions like “How was your weekend?” Instead, she recommends singles ask thought-provoking questions like, “What’s the last thing you learned?” or “When was the last time you were surprised?” These types of questions get people’s attention and help you avoid repetitive conversations.
“I want people to be intentional and really stand out,” Urey said.
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